All good advice to KD, but I want to back up a bit to what his W is claiming:
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My W has stated last Sunday that her family and "friends" all think I'm trying to scr3w her in the D

Now, one of the first things we hear on joining our little club (besides not talking about Fight Club, er...) is to believe nothing they say and only half of what they do.

KD, is is just your W saying this, or do you have reason to believe this is true besides her words? If you are relying solely on her words to describe how her family feels, is that wise at this point? It's possible that W is projecting her feelings onto what she wants her family to say?

If it's just her projections, then the answer may be different than if her family truly hates you with the intensity of a 1000 suns.

This may be an important distinction. Or it could just be me.

Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011