Well KD...

I guess what I have are questions.

What does your family want to do?

What is your motivation for going/not going?

Which, going/not going do you feel will push you closer to your goal?

BTW, here email is very reasonable and well written.

I understand the feeling of having a problem with "faking" the family thing.

But....

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The only thing that I can think is going on here is D8 has told my W that she wants my family there. The conundrum is, Sunday is her actual b-day...


Have you asked D8 what she wants?

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