Preseason has begun...just trying to make the cut

[MHL]

Is there a point of no return? I know what's done is done but...is that a wrap? I haven't contacted her and she hasn't contacted me...is it likely that is how it will be because I did "A LOT" last weekend?

There is a paradigm shift you need to make here MTS.....

There is never a "wrap" on anything.....ever.

First.......your journey, your actions, your focus does not change based on what she does, Right????

We all come here to save our marriages.......but what you find over time is that you are really saving yourself.

Once you really get that then you will realize that if you end up divorced you still would not give up on yourself.......right???

Don't let the status of your Marriage affect whether or not you continue to work on yourself.

In a way, if it helps, you might want to go ahead and consider your marriage as over and operate from that perspective.

Saving your marriage is a by product of saving yourself.

Right now saving the marriage is driving your efforts....

The paradigm shift is changing that driving force to saving yourself.

Hope that helps.

Cheers