You continue to want to explain/justify/rationalize YOUR WAY. But your way hasn't WORKED. Go back and re-read your post about how many times you use the word "feel," as in "I feel _____ ." You are STILL making your overall strategy and individual tactics decisions based on your FEELINGS, and that's not a winning formula.
Are you doing better? I'm not so sure. I think intellectually you now know a ton more about all of this stuff than when you started, but as for your actions, you haven't really changed much. And even emotionally, these past 72-96 hours have been some of your toughest, by your own admission.
So again, I ask you . . . is your way working??? For YOU????
Starsky
The way that I was doing things up through July was not working for me. But I have adjusted. The only difference between what you guys are saying and what I'm doing is that I'm letting W initiate contact.
Am I wrong?
Last week, I flat out ignored a night of text messages from W.
Last weekend, I was successful in not allowing my W to bait me into R talk.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
