The reason is that I was/am afraid that if I hurt her, she will walk away from me.
Uhmmm......Didn't that already happen ?
No. I believe he's talking about the OW here not his W.
I respect your courage, Denver. I find these kinds of things can be hard to admit to oneself. One thing I found was that being much less attached to the outcome with OW allowed me to see myself and my reactions at a more comfortable arms length and learn some very valuable things.
I think that is true of me as well Dantes.
So I answered your question about why I was dishonest with OW. Now to confront that. Ugh.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
