I have been checking his email that I found the initial emails on as I am now the only one who knows the password and so far there hasn't been anything from OW which I know is a good sign but I'm still banging my head on a wall because I don't know for sure if they've had a PA or not and can't seem to get past it, I just don't know what to do.
As for the flowers and jewelery, this is typically his LL - yes I like to have nice surprises, who doesn't but I would say my LL is more affection based which he can't really do as I don't want him within ten feet of me right now I feel like he thinks if he keeps buying things and being nice it will all go away when it won't. "I have an undying love for you" and "I've wanted you like a drug" keep coming into my mind from his letter