cry ugh this [censored] - I thought there would be some magic thing I hadn't thought of to "know" he wasn't secretly contacting - can't believe I would have to resort to these measures.

Hmmm, VC I'm not sure on the mobile account online, I'll have a look into that.

confused He bought me flowers yesterday. So in the space four days he bought a bead for my pandora bracelet AND flowers! He is being extra good with the kids and being v nice too but he isn't doing anything in particular about the problem!!

I'm not sure I can do this - I have read all the stuff about putting a big stop sign in your mind when you think of the OW etc but everything he does I am thinking "yeah great but you've slept with and been in love with another W!!!" I know it is early days but how does this go away and how do you want them to be any where near you ever again?


M-43 H-42
S-11 D-7
T-19 yrs
M-15 yrs
Bombshell 9/17/15
Sep - 11/9/15