Thanks, lc4; your comments and insights are very valuable to me.
It's odd, but not unexpected...I find myself feeling better about this mess each day. My thoughts about my W are less frequent and pretty non-emotional. OTOH, I am more excited each day about my "new life", the friends and family that are part of it and the new opportunities I have to do things I never did.
The reason I asked if you were close to SA was that my son will be arriving at Lackland AFB On Sept. 1 for basic training, so my daughter and I will be flying down there on October 27 for his graduation. I thought, "How fun it would be if we could get together while we were in TX. You could meet my awesome kids and I could tell you how nice your hair looks". But 350 mi. is a pretty good jaunt.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS