I have to say, I was right with you until I read the line that Sleeper quoted...
Expectations, will kill you in this.
However your suspicion that you will see your W occasionally is pretty accurate.
IMO (in my opinion), women seem to handle MLC a little differently than men do. I am not sure why other than the possibility that women are more outwardly emotional by nature than men.
There are some really great men here who have survived this, not all by reconciling but still survived and thrived. I am sure they will be along soon enough... try to get to know them.
If nothing else, journal here, know that you are not alone in what you are experiencing.
And believe it or not, many of us here are introverts
"Acceptance doesn't mean resignation. It means understanding that something is what it is and there's got to be a way through it."--Michael J. Fox
