You are not crazy! If you are so am I! Mine I believe only had an EA until he left me. We were both virgins when we met and I always thought if I ever found out he'd slept with someone else I wouldn't be able to have him back. But I love him dearly and now I realise there were issues in our marriage and they are fixable and I'd take him back and improve things.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11