Just thinking about some of the stuff that's come up here on your thread, KML...

It's interesting to note how... when we first come here and actually DBing our Ms... we tolerate the otherwise intolerable...

then... we realize that we should not lose ourselves in our M and S...

and we come to the realizations that no M... no R... is ever going to be "perfect"...

and finally... we set a VERY HIGH standard for what we want a new R to look like... as though... we figure the new R is supposed to be perfect...

just like we were... when we got M in the first place...

rather than operating from a sense of self... and tolerance...