Does your cell phone service have where you can register your account online? You can do that, and all the numbers called by yours and his line will show up, unless they are shown as unavailable or something. I have that on ours, H does not know it, and I don't check it very much at all, but so far so good. As for the email, ask for the password, anyway, just to be sure he has closed it. You sound much tougher this time around, but still sweet. vc