One thing that I found valuable when I was casually going out with a female was that it reminded me of how it was like to date again. I remembered how to ask questions to find out more about someone I was interested in.
I actually took those rediscovered skills and applied them to my W. once I did, she slowly started to open up again.
I have noticed that I have rediscovered some of this too Bond.
OW is a tough issue. I most definitely see the point that many have made to me. But I also think that I have learned a lot just in the 3 or 4 short weeks that she has been in my life.
I also know now that it has no chance of surviving. In fact, I sense that it may already be on it's last legs.
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce