Originally Posted By: MrBond
One thing that I found valuable when I was casually going out with a female was that it reminded me of how it was like to date again. I remembered how to ask questions to find out more about someone I was interested in.

I actually took those rediscovered skills and applied them to my W. once I did, she slowly started to open up again.


I have noticed that I have rediscovered some of this too Bond.

OW is a tough issue. I most definitely see the point that many have made to me. But I also think that I have learned a lot just in the 3 or 4 short weeks that she has been in my life.

I also know now that it has no chance of surviving. In fact, I sense that it may already be on it's last legs.


M 43
X 38
T 13
W moves out of home 11/2010
Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012
I request divorce 5/2012
W moves home 6/2012
Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015
I leave 3/2016
process of divorce