Should i tell her these things and take comfort in that im trying to include her, even if she doesn't act on what i say? Or do i just leave it be and if she decides to ask questions about their activities answer her at that point?
I think this really depends on you tank. IF you can let her know of these events and then NOT be disappointed if she does not respond... IF you feel good regardless of her response or lack there of...
Do what makes YOU feel like YOU are doing the RIGHT thing.
If you do so WITH expectations, it seems most likely she will disappoint. So think about this. Be honest with yourself. Then, you will know what is best for you.
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Does this mean i have to switch forums?
That is up to you... But this place probably does still get the most traffic. And I am not sure how much it matters. How would the advice change?
tank, your story is one that tears me up. You have become VERY strong. What you have done is so admirable.
I understand your feeling for wanting it all to end. The legal paper might help you get there. But think what this would actually change at this point.
One thing I know. IF you decide you need the paper for closure. No one here would look down upon it.
I am glad to hear your treatment has been helping. I am sure "tough" is an understatement.
Peace man.
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