One thing that I found valuable when I was casually going out with a female was that it reminded me of how it was like to date again. I remembered how to ask questions to find out more about someone I was interested in.
I actually took those rediscovered skills and applied them to my W. once I did, she slowly started to open up again.
M-43 W-40 2D - 9 and 5
Emotion, yet peace. Ignorance, yet knowledge. Passion, yet serenity. Chaos, yet harmony. Death, yet a new life.