My W had wanted her and my family all together for my D8's b-day this coming weekend. She asked about a month ago, I said no and she basically said my family has issues if they can "step up".
So last Sunday she brings it up again. Says she's going to invite my family to her place for b-day... The conversation later turns to how her family and "friends" all think I'm trying to scr3w her in D... That's when I said to her, "Do you really think that inviting me and my family into a house full of people who think I'm trying to scr3w you is a GOOD thing?"