My feelings are changing...sitch isn't

[MrBond]

Actually you're at a good place now. She feels her "control" slipping because no one seems to want to follow the beat of her drum, so she takes it out on you.

Next time she says something about your family, tell her that your family doesn't have to do anything she says as they are entitled to their feelings just as she is.

Just ignore her for now. She will continue her rant for awhile.

Think about a spoiled little girl who doesn't get what they want. What happens? They throw a tantrum. And when they feel no one is listening to them or getting them what they want, they rant even louder. Don't worry. They all do this. Funny how predictable they are.