We met today and took care of the deed to the house. She asked me to lunch, but I declined. Yay me.
But....while we were waiting, we talked a little bit. She told me how she still wants to be a part of my family and how my family needs to change their attitude. Does she want to "cake eat?" Is she trying to reconnect with my family? She says that she didn't choose to leave everyone, just me. She also reminded me how "done" she is.
Afterwards, on the way home she started sending me texts reminding me again how "done" she is and accussing me of all kinds of lying and withholding information. She also accused me of being "fake."
I finally had to turn off my phone.
I don't know peeps. I just don't know if I can do this anymore.
Tad
Currently: M 56 XW 57 Sons 38,33,31,29
The Sitch: Married 26 years EA w/ OM 9/10 Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary) Sep 12/10 She wants D 1/11 W files 5/11 D final 10/11 XW marries OM 6/13