Well, I've moved into my cozy little house and keeping so busy, I don't have much 'introspection' time. XH made an attempt to contact our two D's, one responded, one didn't. I told them both not to make me the reason for their actions with their Dad. The D that responded back said everything with him has strings. He wants to see them and the kids, but in order to do that, they have to meet and accept OW. I haven't heard anything since I contacted him about the arsonist in our area, and got the smarta$$ reply.
Made a great impression on my new neighbor. The first day of moving in, in 106 degree heat, after working for 10+ hours, my friend and I stopped to have a few brews, on an empty stomach. That was when my neighbor came over to introduce herself. She was very nice. I was very squishy.
Since then, I have tried to be very proper as I leave and return. Waving and smiling nicely. No trash bags full of beer cans on the curb, etc. Unfortunately, she came back over yesterday afternoon, to tell me my dog was out. I was standing in the front door in a T shirt, no shorts ( I had just gotten home and was changing.) After I thanked her and closed the door, I realized she had to have seen the huge black eye I have from a stained glass picture falling on my eyebrow this weekend. I'm sure she now thinks I am a barfly that spends her off time in the bars, whooopin' up on gals. OMG!
