What you're going through is perfectly natural. Went through the whole thing myself a long time ago. Now you see why everyone was saying that the OW wasn't the answer but a temporary fix. But everyone's got to learn that on their own.
There will come a time when you'll reach a point of "balance". Where you will want to go out with someone for the sake of going out with them and you won't feel guilty or responsible for your actions. It will be like a weight has lifted off you. It's at that point that you would have honestly detached.
Thanks Bond. All of this talk of truly detaching has such a sense of finality to it. I'm not giving up on my M... but I don't know how to do that without constantly being in pain.
THAT is my problem.
Rough day. Sorry.
Denver
M 43 X 38 T 13 W moves out of home 11/2010 Roller coaster from hell 2/2011-5/2012 I request divorce 5/2012 W moves home 6/2012 Good time 7/2012 - 1/2015 I leave 3/2016 process of divorce
