Do I stay or do I go?

[anyhope]

Yesterday was interesting.. I did reply to ow and she said that my husband still has feelings for me, but is going through mlc and has confused feelings about her, sees her as a sign of freedom and is chasing his youth. All true. She does not want a relationship with him nor my husband with her.

This sounds great, but I just remembered my husband lived with me for about a year before he considered me as his girlfriend.. Now I'm his wife. So while now both of them feel whatever they have is a fling, what if it turns more serious? And even if it doesn't when does it end? Would it be a wakeup call for h if I just got up and left?

Btw I do have a job interview lined up tomorrow.

Ow thinks I can still get my husband back if I'm patient and change myself to be someone he used to be in love with.

It's pretty interesting she told me all these. Reading her message I felt like it was a forum response from someone trying to help me out.. So the question remains.. Do I stay or do I go?