Interesting perspective MHL.

Thinking about our M, the truth is neither one us was a very good planner.

I have always been kind of a "play it by ear" guy.

W probably tried more than me, but she also would have a hard time following through with plans.

Speaking of her family. Her mom is an EXTREME planner.

EVERY detail always worked out. My W and I would joke about it, since like I said, we are both different in this regard.

My W is probably more like her dad. More laid back and willing to "go with the flow."

I can truly see how my W wanted MORE leadership from me in this regard.

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On a side note. D freaked AGAIN this morning while dropping her back off with W.

This is now the last 3 times in a row.

I am concerned, and trying to think if I should take any action on this.

Just not sure what you can do for a 2 year old in this situation.

I struggle to believe any type of child counseling will work at such a young age.

Anyone have any experience with this?

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