Denver, Sell them, or give them away, that way you do not look like an A$$ to SS or W in case they ask. I would not bring it up unless asked.
As for the wondering if she thinks about it like you do.....who knows........I think they do. I asked my XW something along those lines before we divorced and she said she thought about it every morning after she woke up.
It just hurt me more.
I know you are still "attached" and it is tough.....I think you are moving though..........I will tell you that when it does happen you will not realize it. It will be sometime later that you think... "Wow, I haven't thought about her all day or all week or whatever"
I think you are getting to that place where you are getting tired of feeling a certain way......the pain of staying in that place is starting to over ride the "fear" of letting go.
I remember being scared that if I truly let go that I would lose the ability to love her if she decided to come back.....it was a fear.
I think I got tired of being in the same place for so long.......Everyone is different but I will tell you that it took me over a year. My Bomb came June 30, 2009 and it was sometime in August of 2010 that I truly let go and detached.......I don't know the date because it happened without me realizing it.
It takes TIME.........fill the void of time with other things and other experiences.
Cheers
Formerly "missherlove"
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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.
