Treading water - time and patience

[NYCPeter]

Just got a text from my W saying she'll meet me in front of the theatre 20 mins before the show starts.

Endeavour - thanks for reading and your encouraging words.
It was hard to hear what my W said, but I'd rather hear the truth, it gives me an idea of where her mind is at and what she is currently feeling.

Like many people on the board - we're looking for the magic formula that will transform our M, it took me a while to realize that I need to change myself and that my M *could* be saved as a byproduct.

I know she has noticed some changes - the challenge is that the wall won't come down and she seems determined to move ahead with the path she has chosen. I can show her a different path but I can't make her take it.

Endeavour if I may ask - was it a gradual change of mind or was there any one trigger that made you change your mind. I know everyone's situation is different - but it's great to hear from a WAS that has changed their mind, I was beginning to think they didn't exist.