Not sure what to tell you Denver. You know in my case, I ended up going to the concert with W and it turned out well. Based on the last few weeks between you and your W, I'm not so sure I'd give the same advice to you.
Is the concert something that either you or your W looked forward to more? If so, maybe the one who wanted it more could go. Just one thought...
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011