"I want a magic bullet, to say the right thing which will get us back."
The best magic bullet is the one that is not fired.
Ponder that one, Grasshopper.
OK, seriously, Here...my point (and anyone else's that is on this board) is that you need to take your emotions, your desires to say ILY, your texting/e-mailing/whatever-ing, your need to reconnect with your W on every level - and put them away for now.
Pull back. Say little or nothing. Act like you have moved on.
It is difficult; maybe the most difficult thing you will do. But if you don't do this, you will not like the results. You keep pulling W toward you, but your W will keep pulling away.
Let her chase you until you catch her.
H 56 W 48 D27,S21 SS25 SS22 Severely autistic M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs. "I've never loved you" 3/7/2011 Separated 8/7/2011 BITS
