Really sad is that he is still sending flowers on special occasions. They are from the kids but he always signs his name. He didn't help the girls with my birthday this year(I think I ticked him off at the doctors because I said we weren't friends...as if!!) but the girls still pulled together some of their stuff and gave me a couple of presents.
I know if I didn't go get something for their Dad he wouldn't get anything as I wait until the last minute and ask them what they have gotten him. It is sad, I don't know if it is time to let him feel that too.
kat
Me-53(and learning!) S24, S21, D18, D17 Just keep swimming, Just keep swimming. Dory