karma,
nothing wrong asking how someone's first day of work was. Her response was completely out of order; I agree, it sounded like she was blaming your for her choices that brought her there.

Hang in there, the roller coaster has to be shut down for maintenance at some point smile

Me 43 W 38
M 5 T 7
SD20
S15, S13 with 1st W
ILYBNILWY June 2010
Separation/Bomb July 2010
Divorce Feb 8, 2011