GAL, don't worry about posting for others right now, you have yourself to take care of ATM. When you can pay it forward, you will.
Take your time absorbing what the L said. Only advice I can give you is to make any decisions on facts, not emotions. And if you don't have to make a decision on something this moment, don't.
Me 43 W 38 M 5 T 7 SD20 S15, S13 with 1st W ILYBNILWY June 2010 Separation/Bomb July 2010 Divorce Feb 8, 2011