Myname, I have the feelings you have, less often than before but still, there are days...
The trick for me is to look for strength inside me and not expect or request it from him. Schnarch has "a soothing yourself" chapter in his book I think. I find it extremely helpful. As time passes by, I feel stronger and that allows me to act in a more mature way within our R.Guess what the result is? More safety. Feed the good wolf myname, feed the good wolf. K
