Tad - my xh could give most people lessons in hostility [see the title of my thread] Pre MLC he was a gentle and quiet man, but boy did he explode. Angry hostile, mean and destructive.
They say the stupidest things. "We just aren't compatible anymore" sounds quite mild to me! "I never wanted to marry you, it was all done against my will" "You were never ever what I wanted in a woman" "I never found you attractive in the ways that matter" "I always wanted to leave and never found out how" were just a few of the printable things he has said in the past few years.
He still has not regrets and thinks he did the right thing. Just is currently less hostile, which is a good thing. But I have very little contact with him. Why would I?
Not being competitive here - but really they are nuts. Please get that simple truth into your head.
