Thanks Beatrice. I'm getting there I think. I just can't get over the nice/angry/nice/angry thing. The anger is just so unbelievable. I almost picture a demon breathing fire when she starts to go off.

I'm also wondering: have any of you had your spouse say to you something like: "we just aren't compatable anymore."

She has been saying this a lot.

Tad

Currently:
M 56 XW 57
Sons 38,33,31,29

The Sitch:
Married 26 years
EA w/ OM 9/10
Bomb 10/10 (5 weeks after 25th anniversary)
Sep 12/10
She wants D 1/11
W files 5/11
D final 10/11
XW marries OM 6/13