I'm just trying to figure out how to get my W to file... maybe I should show up there with my suitcase and tell her I'm moving back in... grin I think she's got her future all planned out now, so she's full on D mode now... I am pretty OK with that...

Talked to my nutbar aunt today for the first time about my sitch. There was no such thing as DBing back in the day, 20 years ago... but funny, her L told her "no contact" for her and uncle until settlement signed... she said it worked great for her. smile

She said to me that there's no point getting seriously involved with any new lady now that I have kids... it actually made sense... I think she might be smart, that way... lol