You have to own your mistakes. I drove mine away by refusing sex. I initially felt like I ruined my family. But my counsellor has got me through this and although I was part of the reason that H left he is also responsible. He didn't have to walk. He could have talked to me and tried to fix it. So yes you are to blame but you are only 50% responsible and now that you know your mistakes you are a better person and will learn from this whole situation.
H 34, W 36 T 13.5 M 8.5 C 6yo twins S 6/5/11 OW 7/6/11 OW moves in 9/18/11
