I know, people can have so many weird dating experiences (myself included!) that everyone is concerned for me. The more I get out of my own weirdness, though, the more I realize that there's really nothing bad here except maybe a guy who could be a little bit too ADD for me. Or may or may not be as into me as I would like, although when he is with me, he is all that I would want him to be.
He's definitely not a scammer. More like the pair of purple shoes perhaps.
I definitely do have to make it quite clear to him that certain behaviors (saying he will call and then not doing it) will cause me to lose interest in him, quickly. And it's good for me to get the gut check and make sure I'm not repeating old habits. But I think I can afford to give him the space to show me who he is - because there are a lot of things I really really like about this guy.
All will be revealed in time, one way or another. I need to try not to get my panties in a bunch in the meantime.
