25, I didn't say it before, but your last post was very encouraging and inspiring. I truly appreciate your support, not just because you seem to have my back :), but your words couldn't have come at a better time to steer me in the proper direction. I am worried about the consequences, but then again, that goes to show that I really need to dig deep and trust that our Lord knows best. LITB, you weren't kidding about the unfolding story in your new thread. Keep us posted. I hope that your's and my wife see strong men, decisive men in us, and perhaps give them pause.
UPDATE 6:15pm I can't do another consultation with the lawyer I like, so they're suggesting I plop down $4k for the retainer. I am going ahead with the plan with every last cent of my credit cards and some of my savings. It's for my son and our assurance - it's worth it. It's going to be a very tight month, but we'll see. Still, my appointment is on Wednesday morning, so I'm not sure what to tell my wife until then. I don't want to seem like I'm purposefully stalling or something, you know? I just don't know what to say tomorrow.
