holy cow

I guess I don't get that vibe from him and I don't even know him!!!

I guess I am also not planning a wedding when you haven't actually been "going out" really either...just have that potential

hows about everyone chill out for a bit until people get to know each other before waving those red flags at those imaginary bulls


we don't know that he is really not that into her
I don't think HE knows if he is really that into her

or

if KML is really that into him for that matter

sounds like they are getting to know each other

Barb is talking about lists and 4 months of dating already and comparing her and Josh's relationship
which is fabulous
but it isn't the same

and

I don't think it even started out the same
or
that KML and Barb were looking for the same thing

correct me if I am wrong (and I may be)
but it sounds like KML just recently decided that Mr Big Lots might potentially be boyfriend material, not that she was shopping for BF material before...correct?

so

why not see if develops into that before dooming it to fail

if it does, (fail) it doesn't sound like she will be devastated as she wasn't shopping for that to begin with but when she saw it, it sounded nice

(kind of like those sweet shoes you didn't know you were looking for until you saw them and then you found them in your size but not really in the color you would normally buy but that doesn't mean they are a bad pair of shoes...maybe purple shoes will be your new favorite and way more versatile than you ever imagined and you may find yourself wondering how in the crackerjacks you ever managed without a pair of purple shoes for this long...or you may decide that they are nice but not so nice on your feet and you return them after a couple of days and are a little wiser about the color palette of shoes you need in your wardrobe)