Agree completely Ken.

My feeling bad was kind of different. I was not feeling bad about my decision not to switch weekends, or how THAT would make HER feel.

It was just a reminder of the loss of her dad.

I still care for my W of course.

So I still empathize with THAT pain. And shoot, I really miss the guy too.

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