Do I stay or do I go?

[anyhope]

You're right. He's a big boy who can figure out to cheat, so I guess he'll figure the rest as well. But when you still care for someone (which I do) it's hard to see them in this phase.

He spent a total of 3 hours home yesterday while I used the car and he was off to a party with friends and ow. Came home drunk at 1am, went to sleep. Five minutes later ow called to ask where he went. He asked her if she wanted him to come back for her to which she said yes as he was getting dressed and the next thing I know my dog has his collar on... So I ask him where is the dog going? And he said he was gonna take him... To which I said.. In your dreams. You're not taking my dog to her as well, she can have you, but back off my dog or else. Poor dog was so excited to go, but ended up not going.

I told him to get a new dog. He wanted a new girl, new life, might as well get a new dog to go with it and leave us alone.

Then today photos of them at Niagara Falls surfaced on Facebook. Over a 100 again. One one of the photos ow is wearing my sunglasses that I keep in the car. So I couldn't resist.. I wrote a comment asking why she's wearing my sunglasses, and followed it by a private message to he asking if there was anything else in my life besides my husband and sunglasses she would like, because we could just make her a package and call it a day.. To this she responded with a letter saying how sorry she was to cause me pain and come between my husband and I. That my husband is unhappy and all he wants is happiness and on and on on how our marriage can survive this if it's strong enough, and how I will be very happy if I open my heart to new possibilities???
Well that's great thank you for the kind words.. Perhaps we'd have a better chance of working this out with her gone.. Btw this also happens to be the day where the morning news is full of some girl that fell into Niagara Falls and as bad as it sounds I keep thinking god, I wish it was her..