Johnnie it seems your impatience is getting the best of you.
one good conversation doesn't mean its all rosy.
likewise one bad conversation doesn't mean its all trash.
just slow down and back off or risk losing it all.
forcing the issue is a sure way to damage what work you have done.
i said on another thread its like trying to get a squirrel to eat a nut out of your hand. show it you have food and then sit back. you cant chase the squirrel and force it to eat. inching forward works temporarily, but eventually you'll frighten it off. you need to peak its curiosity, gain its trust, and let it come to you in its own time. spook it and it may never come back.
your primary role now is to show her your nuts are better than anyone else's and let her choose you.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
