I'm with you on this. I have held on for 2 years. I had ENOUGH. In my eyes, he lost a wonderful wife and he's loosing respect from his own kids.He discarded everyone that loved him the most. In my eyes, he deserves his OW. She puts him through hell but his behavior deserves just that. I TOO AM MOVING WITHOUT HIM. I have no more patience for his childish behavior.
I am a good person, i lived right by him, never betrayed him, never lied to him, stood by him for 18 yrs, gave him 4 wonderful kids and one day, just walked out and lived as if we never existed. Maybe it's time for him to not exist on my life.