I am frustrated today…

Got this email from my W this morning…

“Hi
Hope you had fun at your family thing yesterday....too bad non of the kids peeps were there they knew...sure it was still fun!
Anyways just an fyi..... (D6) starts swimming every night for the next two weeks.....and saturday (D11) has tennis and then I may pick up (sisters) boys and take them for a picnic and park play for a bit with our three.....and sunday I am going back to school shopping in (City 100 Miles away) (outlets)!

Have a good day,
Wife”

So, when I read this, it looks to me like she is setting up activities to avoid me. I thought that with our more frequent open communication she was starting to show signs of warming up… (Or am I being too sensitive?)

Did our open 2 hour R talk last Sunday make her set up these activities (and her job working all last weekend) as a way of avoiding me?

Or is she doing this for me to force me to detach?

How should I respond to her Email?

Am I just fooling myself in believing that she wants things to work out?

or am I expecting too much too soon? (Sandi I could use your perspective here)


What is my best course of action here to DB. I’m asking first before I action…

Johnnie…


Me 45 W 34 W.A.W.
3K. D11 S9 D6
M 12 y T 13 y
Bomb drop 02/22/2011
2nd written bomb (Letter bomb) 05/31/2011
Affair (A bomb) revealed 07/03/2011