Hey MTS,

Well, I will tell you that I am glad you went to the conference and if it bolstered your confidence then that is great.

I am not so sure about what you said to your wife........

You basically gave her an ultimatum......are you ready to see that through?? I mean REALLY??

I did the same thing and I was not ready and I just came across as pathetic........

You basically said come back to the marriage or that is it, you tried to use guilt from a biblical prespective.

She will use the bible to absolve herself of her sin......I mean that is what we are supposed to do right???

Look at it from her perspective.......if God forgives me then you should too, and if you don't then you are not being a good Christian.

I hope you truly embrace what you have said about being happy for YOU.......that is the very best thing you can do, that means that she is no longer good for you while she is uncommitted and is actively involved in an affair or pushing through to get the divorce done.

That also means that you don't care about this stuff VVVVVVV

Originally Posted By: MadeToSucceed

I found out this morning from a mutual friend she is actually telling people they can celebrate her freedom with her in October.


So are you going to truly let her be and let go???

What does that look like??


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Expose yourself to your deepest fear; after that, fear has no power, and the fear of freedom shrinks and vanishes. You are free.

~Jim Morrison