Thanks Telemark,

I appreciate the look into the mind of a WAS. I know from the talks with him the confusion that he has. I also realize that most WAS do regret what they did to their families. I try to be understanding and help him in any way that he will let me. I am glad that we are still talking and doing things together and that the time together is good.

I am slowly taking steps forward for myself, I need to take my time and make sure that I do not rush into any decisions that would close the door.

I hope that you are holding your head up during this time in your life. Sorry that you have to be going through this again.


M 48
H 51
Married 30
S 29
D 28
GD 5
GS 17 months
Sep May 2011
H home 8-18-11