sorry KD, the kids situation is tough. this is the worst part of my situation also. but you sound resigned to losing.
of course they all think you're trying to scr3w her, my x told everyone that too, that i was hiding money, etc. see chapter 8 sections 4 through 56 in the WAS handbook.
do not quit. if you dont like what your lawyer is telling you, find another. if your current financial situation will prevent you from getting the time you deserve, push off the D as long as you can and try to a better place financially. get creative, get mean, these are your children.
and yes, it is tough, and depressing and the outcome looks bleak. this is where you get tested. expect the worst, fight for the best. hope is passive and now is not the time for passive.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
