X I have followed you from the beginning. I wish I was as patient as yolu have been. I have always been a fixer and now I can't fix this. I have backslid so many times you can't count. It seems though day by day goes by and it somehow feels like life will go on after the D. However with that being said everytime I go several days without seeing or talking to my W, the minute I see her I fall to pieces. How can someone not see the change in a person after a year. I think you are right about months instead of minutes, hours or days. WAS's are on there own timeline and we have to get used to it. Anyway good luck to you and be patient, maybe this friend getting a D will help your sich. I think you said he was ok with it and ready to move on. Good luck my friend. Scott
