I had a chance to talk a little bit to the wife today. She said that she was filing for divorce, and if I only wanted a separation then I can file those papers myself.

I'm am so horribly depressed about this thing. I'm really not sure what to do. The more I look at this message board, or read the divorce busting book, the harder it is for me. I feel sick. I felt so good about it just three days ago and now i can't sleep or eat.

Feeling pretty hopeless.