KD when it comes to agreements, the financials, etc, there will always be areas of regret. should've gotten more, given less, etc.
for your own piece of mind, carefully consider how to minimize your future regrets. while your mind now says to walk away and take the loses, these may be bigger regrets in the future. likewise with what may seem trivial now.
custody, visitation, schedules are all very important. make notes of the other threads you've read, what others are struggling with, and add these to your agreement. rights of first refusal is big, do not miss that one.
do not sign anything while on her roller coaster.
your children's stability depends directly on your financial stability. protecting yourself protects your children. my x was always horrible with money and debt, so i needed to make sure i didn't give her more than necessary knowing i was the only financial adult in the room. this is the only way i could guarantee my daughter would be safe and always have a roof over her head.
"In a ham and eggs breakfast, the hen is involved, but the pig is committed".
