"You are ABSOLUTELY NOT where you were 12 years ago. I have seen you make great strides even in the time you've been on this message board. C'mon, give yourself some credit!"

Thanks. I know I'm a lot healthier this time around. I guess what I meant was that I'm in the throes of a separation/possible divorce again. that was not part of the long-term plan.

"Seriously, this is fixable. I think you can roll with it."

Of course. Had to grumble a little bit...

H 56
W 48
D27,S21
SS25
SS22 Severely autistic
M(#2 for both) 9 1/2 yrs.
"I've never loved you" 3/7/2011
Separated 8/7/2011
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