Later tonight, H wants to discuss some questions I had answered in a book I bought on contemplating divorce. There were questionnaires you could fill out to help you organize your thoughts and feelings concerning the relationship. He found this book while snooping (it was well hidden) during the time I was considering leaving (last year).
I don't get why he wants to discuss my feelings concerning him or our relationship if he's walking away?
He has asked to talk a few times this week but I've kept myself busy, or have gone out to avoid these R talks. He texted me a few days ago to meet so we could talk about some relationship books but I ignored it because I was trying to give him lots of space and not pursue.
Then he texted again to talk about these books and asked me to bring the one on divorce two days ago. I ignored that text too.
A friend said he might have mistook me avoiding these talks as me not wanting to work on things and decided nothing was going to change. He did say earlier that he could tell I've been walking on eggshells and seemed uncomfortable around him. Definitely true.
So I guess that's my 180? To stop avoiding the talks? It's not like he spews hate at me. He usually spends a lot of time telling me he feels hopeless and sad.
I'm trying my best to DB but am still struggling with what to do in this situation and could use some advice from the long time posters...
